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The Friend of the Children with Michael Rugen

Michael Rugen is a career lawyer who had a passion for pro bono work focused on kids and racial justice. As he pivoted to his Third Act, he founded Friends of the Children, a nonprofit that pairs mentors with at-risk children from kindergarten through high school graduation. Join Liz as she talks to Michael about how to translate a passion into action as Michael is doing.

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Your first act is school, your second act is work, but have you thought about what you’re going to do in your third act? Join host Liz Tinkham, a former Accenture Senior Managing Director, as she talks to guests who are happily “pretired” – enjoying their time, treasure, and talent to pursue their purpose and passion in the third act of their life.

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The Friend of the Children with Michael Rugen

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On this episode of Third Act, Liz talks with Michael Rugen – The Friend of the Children. Michael grew up a jock, telling Liz that he was into girls and sports as a young man. But his Dad sparked an early realization of the inequity in the US when someone came to the door asking him to sign a petition to prevent blacks from buying the homes in their suburban neighborhood. He went on to become a lawyer, but made sure that he had time and space for plenty of pro bono work, focusing on children and racial injustice. He started looking for an organization where he could further that work. He found Friends of the Children, an organization that pairs mentors with at-risk children from kindergarten through high school graduation. Today he is the Founder and Executive Director of the SF chapter, serving 110 children and growing. Michael is the perfect embodiment of what Liz was looking to highlight in this podcast; he had a passion for kids and racial injustice that he is now fulfilling full time in his third act.

Join Liz’s inspiring conversation with Michael as describes how a tragic pro bono case with a young man accused of second degree murder prompted him to serve at-risk youth in his Third Act.

3:17 Representing Ronald
5:38 Early recognition of racial injustice
9:29 Finding Friends of the Children
13:05 Impressive outcomes
15:13 How to change the school system
18:43 Organization goals
21:16 How to get involved in Friends of the Children
22:53 Why Michael was born to do this work

You can find Michael Rugen on Michael Rugen | LinkedIn or at [email protected] To learn more about Friends of the Children, click here San Francisco Bay Area | Friends Of The Children (

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